Sorry I’m Late, I Didn’t Want to Come by Jessica Pan

About the Book:

What happens when a lifelong introvert decides to live like an extrovert for a year? In Sorry I’m Late, I Didn’t Want to Come, writer Jessica Pan chronicles her year of intentional discomfort as she pushes herself far beyond her comfort zone.

With warmth, wit, and refreshing honesty, Jessica attempts challenges many introverts dread, including:

• Talking to strangers
• Performing stand-up comedy
• Hosting a dinner party
• Traveling solo
• Making new friends

The result is a memoir that’s both laugh-out-loud funny and deeply insightful—exploring fear, vulnerability, human connection, and what it really means to show up fully as yourself.

Genre: Memoir / Humor / Personal Growth

Tone: Funny, relatable, reflective

Format: Paperback

• Ideal for introverts, ambiverts, and thoughtful readers
• Easy-to-pick-up chapters—perfect for bedside reading or travel
• Appeals to readers who enjoy humor with heart and real-life insight

Great for book clubs, solo reading, or gifting to someone navigating growth or transition.

At Grace & Haven, we believe growth doesn’t always come from doing more—it often comes from doing things differently. We curated Sorry I’m Late, I Didn’t Want to Come because it speaks beautifully to the quiet courage required to step outside your comfort zone while still honoring who you are.

Jessica Pan’s story mirrors so many conversations we have in-store with thoughtful, introspective women—those craving connection, laughter, and permission to try something new without becoming someone else entirely. This book feels like a gentle nudge, a knowing smile, and a reminder that bravery comes in many forms.