Grace & Haven was created from a simple belief I’ve carried with me for a long time — that shopping should feel thoughtful, calm, and meaningful. I wanted to create a space that feels like a pause in the day, whether you’re walking through our doors or browsing online. A place where things are chosen with care, made by real people, and meant to last. My hope is that when you shop with us, you feel welcomed, unhurried, and inspired — and that you leave with pieces that make you and the ones you love smile, today and for years to come.
With love,
Amy Ihrke
Founder, Grace & Haven
In store displays at Grace & Haven in Essex, CT for some of our favorite brands like Cuddle + Kind and The Blueberry Hill
Chosen with Care
We choose fewer things, on purpose — quality pieces made to be worn, loved, and kept. Timeless favorites you’ll come back to again and again.
Customer browsing at Grace & Haven with coffee in hand
Our Difference
Grace & Haven is your place to pause, shop with intention, and find thoughtful pieces for women, babies, kids, and gifting - every order a gift.
Group of women at networking event for Women in Business at Grace & Haven in Essex, CT
Our Heart
Community guides everything we do — from the brands we support to the connections we create. Grace & Haven is rooted in people, place, and care.
Thank you for being here
Whether you’re browsing, gifting, or building a collection you love, we’re so glad you found us. Grace & Haven exists to make life a little softer, a little easier, and a little more meaningful — one thoughtfully chosen piece at a time.
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Testimonials
"I am so happy with my purchase. The tank is so cute, and I've already worn the jeans twice! I also can't wait to give Emmy the kindness doll for her birthday - what a great idea!"
"There is one brand in particular I have been loving this year – Grace & Haven. It all started with the Farren Dress and after that purchase I haven’t looked back."
“Grace & Haven's Gift Concierge service has taken the stress out of finding the perfect gift. Curated selections and personalized service ensure that every gift is thoughtful, unique, and bound to delight.”
I'm often asked about the name. Truth is, when I grow up, I want to be a pirate. Or at least have as much grit and determination as Grace O'Malley, a 16th Century Irish pirate. Grace is my daughter's middle name (a big thank you to my husband for letting me name her after a pirate). And while Haven originated from a side business in real estate some years ago, I now say "Give yourself grace and find your haven." And I hope you will find that with us. A community of authenticity where you can always be yourself and find the grace you need, even in the throws of motherhood or life; and a true haven from the everyday. We could all use a lot of grace and a little haven!
I'm often asked about the name. Truth is, when I grow up, I want to be a pirate. Or at least have as much grit and determination as Grace O'Malley, a 16th Century Irish pirate. Grace is my daughter's middle name (a big thank you to my husband for letting me name her after a pirate). And while Haven originated from a side business in real estate some years ago, I now say "Give yourself grace and find your haven." And I hope you will find that with us. A community of authenticity where you can always be yourself and find the grace you need, even in the throws of motherhood or life; and a true haven from the everyday. We could all use a lot of grace and a little haven!
We choose fewer things, on purpose. Every piece is selected for its quality, story, and ability to stand the test of time. We work with real people and thoughtful brands who care about how things are made and who they’re made for — so what you bring home feels meaningful, not disposable.
We choose fewer things, on purpose. Every piece is selected for its quality, story, and ability to stand the test of time. We work with real people and thoughtful brands who care about how things are made and who they’re made for — so what you bring home feels meaningful, not disposable.
Grace & Haven isn’t about trends or endless options. It’s about creating an experience that feels calm, personal, and intentional. From the way our collections come together to how every order is wrapped, our goal is for shopping to feel like a breath of fresh air — and for you to leave with something that truly makes you (or someone you love) smile.
Grace & Haven isn’t about trends or endless options. It’s about creating an experience that feels calm, personal, and intentional. From the way our collections come together to how every order is wrapped, our goal is for shopping to feel like a breath of fresh air — and for you to leave with something that truly makes you (or someone you love) smile.
Yes — and we love to. Our Gift Concierge is here to make gifting easy and thoughtful. Share a few details about who you’re shopping for, the occasion, and your budget, and we’ll recommend a few meaningful options, beautifully wrapped and ready for pickup or delivery.
You can reach out anytime — online or in-store.
Yes — and we love to. Our Gift Concierge is here to make gifting easy and thoughtful. Share a few details about who you’re shopping for, the occasion, and your budget, and we’ll recommend a few meaningful options, beautifully wrapped and ready for pickup or delivery.
You can reach out anytime — online or in-store.
Our Store
23 Main Street
Essex, CT
Currently Open Fri-Sun 10-5
Or by Appointment or Chance